Torn Down - This Is To All The Girls

This is to all the girls..

"Don’t judge." Pretty much every girl I know has said this at one point in their lives. They put up a wall between them and people in hopes of getting away from those who will tare them down. “Don’t judge”, or “Don’t judge me unless you’re perfect”. Stuff like this is every where. You may say I’m judging you by writing this, go ahead. I feel like this is what I have to write. .
Girls every where are torn down. They are verbally ripped apart, made fun of, and laughed at. Judged.
This day in age we have computers, cell phones, face book, and we use it. These girls that are hurt use social websites to vent the storm raging inside. It’s used to let the people who hurt them know that hurting others with there words is wrong. Ephesians 4:29  “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.” They let others know that they aren't perfect so they shouldn't judge them, verbally abuse, and laugh at them.
This is where you start practicing a double standard and hypocrisy. Those who hurt you, you now turn around and tear them down. That is where you made your choice. Instead of standing for what you believe is right, instead of practicing what you’re preaching, you choose to do the same thing you are condemning them of doing. You may say I’m over stepping my bounds, you may say I’m judging, but someone has to say this. I've done this before too. I've been at both ends of this. Ephesians 4:32  “And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.”
But you have to know that this will rip your testimony for Christ to pieces.
You may even be joking or messin’ with the girl, but behind the smile could be a world of hurt that you don’t see.
We are to be the lights of the world. The world’s darkness is getting darker. God has called up out of darkness into His light. To be His light. Philippians 2:15  “That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as lights in the world;”
Not all girls are like this, some figure out quickly that tearing people down is wrong. We've all done it though. All of us have gotten torn down one way or another in our life too. So, before you say something, write something, or type something think about what it will cause? Would Jesus be proud of it?

~Beautifully Created 4 Christ~